bhagwan does not ask anyone to change in anyway whatsoever
transformation is a different matter and a different plane altogether
change requires horizontal movement
learning more and getting more experience and gaining knowledge
makes one more knowledgeable
transformation requires vertical movement
unlearning and experiencing inner states
and drowning into knowing leads to awareness
change requires therapies and groups and information
transformation requires meditativeness and awareness
just living in this moment
moment to moment
is an experiencing of a high peaked state of relaxed awareness