{"id":5924,"date":"2018-04-28T21:17:11","date_gmt":"2018-04-28T21:17:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/guruquote.net\/?p=5924"},"modified":"2018-04-28T22:20:28","modified_gmt":"2018-04-28T22:20:28","slug":"others-opinions-still-important-not-silent","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/guruquote.net\/index.php\/2018\/04\/28\/others-opinions-still-important-not-silent\/","title":{"rendered":"If others opinions are still important, you are not Silent"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mp-row-fluid motopress-row mpce-dsbl-margin-left mpce-dsbl-margin-right\">\n<div class=\"motopress-clmn mp-span12  mpce-dsbl-margin-left mpce-dsbl-margin-right\">\n<div class=\"motopress-text-obj\">\n<p>Question &#8211; The practice of Witnessing makes me quiet, still, and silent, but then the friends around me say that i have become serious. There seems to be some substance in what they say. Please explain how one can grow simultaneously in stillness and playfulness.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Osho &#8211; If you have really become silent, you will not pay attention to what others are saying. If others\u2019 opinions are still important, you are not silent. Really, you are waiting for them to say something or for them to approve and appreciate that you have become silent. Your silence needs their approval? You need them to certify it? Then you are not confident that you have become silent.<\/p>\n<p>Others\u2019 opinions are meaningful only because you don\u2019t know anything. Opinion is never knowledge. You go on gathering others\u2019 opinions because you don\u2019t know what you are, who you are, what is happening to you. You have to ask others, \u201dWhat is happening to me?\u201d You have to ask others? If you are really silent, quiet, still, then there are no friends and no opinion is meaningful. Then you can laugh. Let them say whatsoever they say.<\/p>\n<p>But you become affected. Whatsoever they say goes deep in you; you become disturbed. Your silence is false, forced, cultivated. It is not a spontaneous flowering within you. You may have forced yourself to be silent, but you were boiling within. Then the silence is just on the surface. If someone says you are not silent, or if someone says this is not good, or if someone says this is false, then you are disturbed and the silence is gone. The silence is gone, that is why you are asking me this.<\/p>\n<p>\u201dTHERE SEEMS TO BE SOME SUBSTANCE IN WHAT THEY SAY.\u201d You have become serious. So what is wrong in being serious? If you are born serious, to be serious, you will be serious. You cannot force playfulness; otherwise your playfulness will be serious, and you will destroy the whole play. There are serious players. They get so serious in their games and plays that it becomes even more anxiety-creating.<\/p>\n<p>I was reading the memoirs of someone who was a great industrialist, much worried with day-to-day problems. Someone suggested golf: \u201dPlay golf. That will be anxiety-reducing.\u201d He started playing golf, but he was the same man. He became so excited about his golf that he couldn\u2019t sleep, he was playing the whole night. The industry was a burden, and now golf became a second burden \u2013 and a stronger one. He played golf, but with a serious mind, the same mind.<\/p>\n<p>If you are serious, you are serious. Nothing can he done about it. Be serious and remain serious. Then you have already started being playful; then you are playful about your seriousness, not serious about it. You take it as a play, so you say, \u201dOkay, God has given me this role, so I will be a serious man and I will play my seriousness.\u201d Then it will have disappeared deep down. Do you understand me?<\/p>\n<p>You can create seriousness out of your playfulness or you can create playfulness out of your seriousness. If you are a sad one, a serious one, tell everyone, \u201dI am born serious and I am going to remain so\u201d \u2013 and don\u2019t get serious about it. Be! Simply be, and then you can laugh about it and it will disappear. And you will not even become aware of when it has disappeared.<\/p>\n<p>And don\u2019t pay attention to what others say. This is a disease. They will drive you crazy \u2013 the others. Who are these others and why are you so much interested in them? They drive you crazy and you drive them crazy because you are the other to them. Why pay so much importance to others\u2019 opinions? Pay attention to your own experiences and remain true to your own experiences. If you feel good in being serious, it is okay! If you feel you have become quiet and silent and still through your practice of witnessing, why be interested and why be disturbed by what others say?<\/p>\n<p>But we are not confident, so we must gather others\u2019 opinions. We must go on a signature campaign: \u201dYou think I have become a buddha, so please sign.\u201d When everyone signs it and you have gathered many signatures, at least the majority, you think you are a buddha. This is not the way to be an enlightened one.<\/p>\n<p>\u201dAND PLEASE EXPLAIN HOW ONE CAN GROW SIMULTANEOUSLY IN STILLNESS AND PLAYFULNESS.\u201d One grows! There has never been any case that is otherwise. One grows simultaneously in stillness and playfulness, but if your stillness is false then the problem arises. All those who have known silence have always been playful, non-serious. They could laugh, and they could laugh not only at others, they could laugh at themselves.<\/p>\n<p>Bodhidharma entered China fourteen hundred years ago, from India. He put one of his shoes on his head; one was on one of his feet and one was on his head. The Emperor of China, Wu, had come to welcome him. He became disturbed. There were many, many rumors, of course, that this man was strange, but he was an enlightened one and the emperor wanted to welcome him to his Kingdom. He became disturbed. His courtiers, they also became disturbed. What type of man was this? And he was laughing.<\/p>\n<p>It was not good to say anything before others, so when everyone had gone and Bodhidharma and the emperor retired into Bodhidharma\u2019s room, the emperor asked, \u201dPlease tell me, why are you making such a fool of yourself? Why are you carrying one shoe on your head?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Bodhidharma laughed and said, \u201dBecause I can laugh at myself, and it is good to show you my reality. I am such a man, and I don\u2019t pay more importance to my head than I pay to my feet; both are the same to me. Higher and lower have disappeared. And, moreover, I want to tell you that I don\u2019t pay any significance to what others say about me. This is good. The first moment that I entered, I wanted you to know what type of man I am.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>This Bodhidharma was a rare jewel; very few have existed who can be compared to him. What was he showing? He is simply showing that on this path of spirituality you are to go alone as an individual. Society becomes irrelevant.<\/p>\n<p>Someone had come to do an interview with George Gurdjieff. The man who came was a big journalist. Gurdjieff\u2019s disciples were very much excited because now the story was going to be in a big newspaper, and their master\u2019s photo and their master\u2019s news was going to be published. They cared very much; they paid much attention to the journalist. They virtually forgot their master, and they hung around the journalist. Then the interview began, but really, it never began. When the journalist asked some questions to Gurdjieff, Gurdjieff said, \u201dWait a minute.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Just by his side was sitting a lady. Gurdjieff asked, \u201dWhat day is today?\u201d The lady said, \u201dSunday.\u201d Gurdjieff said, \u201dHow is that possible? Just the day before it was Saturday, so how can it be Sunday today? Just the other day you said it is Saturday, and now it is Sunday. How, after Saturday, can Sunday come?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The journalist stood up. He said, \u201dI am going. This man seems to be mad.\u201d All the disciples just couldn\u2019t understand what had happened. When the journalist had left, Gurdjieff was laughing. What others say is not relevant. Be authentic to what you feel, but be authentic! If real silence happens to you, you will be able to laugh.<\/p>\n<p>It is said about Do-zen, one Zen master, that when he attained enlightenment many people asked, \u201dWhat did you do after that?\u201d He said, \u201dI ordered a cup of tea.\u201d What is there to do next? Everything is finished. And Do-zen was serious about his playfulness, playful about his seriousness. Really, what remains? Don\u2019t pay much attention to what others say and remember only one thing: don\u2019t force and cultivate stillness. A cultivated stillness will be serious, ill, tense. But how can a real silence come to you?<\/p>\n<p>Try to understand this. You are tense, you are unhappy, you are depressed, angry, greedy, violent. A thousand diseases are there. Still, you can practice silence. These diseases will be within you, and you can create a layer of silence. You can do transcendental meditation; you can use a mantra. The mantra is not going to change your violence, neither is it going to change your greed. It is not going to change anything deep. The mantra can just give a tranquilizing effect. Just on the periphery, you will feel more silent. This is just a tranquilizer, a sound tranquilizer, and tranquilizing is possible through many ways \u2013 many ways. When you repeat a mantra continuously, you become sleepy. Any continuous repetition of a sound creates boredom and sleep. You feel relaxed, but this relaxation is just on the surface. Within, you remain the same.<\/p>\n<p>Go on practicing a mantra every day, and you will feel a certain stillness \u2013 but not really, because your diseases have not changed, your personality structure remains the same. It is just whitewashed. Stop the mantra, stop the practice, and all your diseases will come up again.<\/p>\n<p>This is happening everywhere. Seekers move from one teacher to another. They go on moving, practicing, and when they stop their practice they find they are the same; nothing has happened. Nothing will happen in this way. These are cultivated silences. You have to go on cultivating them. Of course, if you go on cultivating them, they remain with you just like a habit, but if you break the habit they disappear. A real silence comes not by just using some superficial technique, but by being aware of all that you are \u2013 not only being aware, but remaining with the fact of what you are.<\/p>\n<p>Remain with the fact. This is very difficult because the mind wants change. How to change violence, how to change depression, how to change unhappiness? The mind seeks change to create somehow a better image in the future. Because of this, one goes on seeking this and that method.<\/p>\n<p>Remain with the fact, and don\u2019t try to change it. Do this for one year. Fix a date, and say that \u201dFrom this date, for one year, I will not think in terms of change. I will remain with whatsoever I am; I will just be alert and aware.\u201d I am not saying that you are not to do anything, but that alertness is the only effort. You have to be alert, not thinking in terms of change; remaining whatsoever you are \u2013 good, bad or whatsoever. One year, with no attitude of change, just being alert, suddenly one day you will find you are no more the same. Alertness will have changed everything.<\/p>\n<p>In Zen, they call it \u201dzazen\u201d \u2013 just sitting and doing nothing. Whatsoever happens, happens; you are just sitting. Zazen means just sitting, doing nothing. In Zen monasteries, monks will sit for years, the whole day. You will think they are meditating. They are not! They are just sitting silently. And by silence it is not that they are using some mantra to create any silence; they are simply sitting. If a leg goes dead, they feel it. They are alert. If the body feels tired, they are alert: the body feels tired. This is how the body has to feel. If thoughts are moving, they know it. They are not trying to stop them; they are not trying to push them away. They are not doing anything. Thoughts are just there like clouds in the sky, but they know the clouds cannot destroy the sky: they come and go. So thoughts are moving in the sky of consciousness; they come and go. They don\u2019t force them, they don\u2019t stop them, they don\u2019t do anything;. They are just alert that the thoughts are moving.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes depression comes, a cloud; everything becomes shadowy. Sometimes happiness comes, a sunshine; everything starts dancing, as if flowers have opened all over the consciousness. But they are not disturbed by either this or that, by cloudy weather or by sunshine. They just wait and see that things are moving. They are just sitting on the bank of a river, and everything goes on moving. They don\u2019t try to change anything. If a bad thought comes, they don\u2019t say, \u201dThis is bad,\u201d because the moment you say, \u201dThis is bad,\u201d you have a greed to change it. The moment you say, \u201dThis is bad,\u201d you have pushed it away; you have condemned it, and you would like to change it into something good. They simply say this is this, that is that \u2013 no condemnation, no evaluation, no justification. Simply, watching, witnessing. Sometimes they forget witnessing. Then too they are not disturbed. They know that \u201dOf course it is so,\u201d that \u201dI forgot to witness; now I remember and I will witness again.\u201d They don\u2019t create any problem. They live what is. Years come and go, and they go on sitting and seeing what is.<\/p>\n<p>Then one day everything disappears. Just like a dream, everything disappears and you are awakened. This awakening is not a practiced thing; this awakening is not cultivated. This awakening is your nature, your basic nature. It has erupted because you could wait patiently and watch, and you didn\u2019t create any problems. Remember this as a very basic thing: don\u2019t create problems. don\u2019t create problems!<\/p>\n<p>One lady was here just two or three days ago. She said, \u201dMy mind is sexual, so what can I do?\u201d Someone else came and said, \u201dI feel very inferior; an inferiority complex is there. What can I do?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>So I told that man, \u201dYou feel inferior, so feel inferior; know that you feel like that. What to do? There is nothing to do. One feels sexual, so feel sexual. Know that you are sexual.\u201d But the moment I say such things to someone, he feels shocked. He had come for a technique to change himself.<\/p>\n<p>No one accepts himself; you are such enemies to yourself. You have never had any love for yourself; you have never been at ease with yourself. And this is surprising: you expect everyone to love you, and you yourself cannot even love yourself. You are so against yourself, you would like to shatter yourself in every way and create another. If you were allowed you would create another man. And you would not be satisfied with that either because you would still remain behind it.<\/p>\n<p>Love yourself, accept yourself, and don\u2019t create unnecessary problems. And all problems are unnecessary; there are no necessary problems. I have not come across any. Remain with your \u201dfacticity,\u201d and transformation will happen. But it is not a result, you cannot force it to happen. It is a consequence, not a result. If you accept yourself and remain alert, it comes. You cannot force it, you cannot say that \u201dI will force it to come.\u201d And if you force, a false thing will happen to you, and then that false thing can be disturbed by anyone -by anyone \u2013<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Source &#8211; Osho Book\u00a0 &#8220;Vigyan Bhairav Tantra, Vol 1&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"mp-row-fluid motopress-row mpce-dsbl-margin-left mpce-dsbl-margin-right\">\n<div class=\"motopress-clmn mp-span12  mpce-dsbl-margin-left mpce-dsbl-margin-right\">\n<div class=\"motopress-image-obj motopress-text-align-left\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/guruquote.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/oshojokes421.jpg?fit=267%2C403&ssl=1\" title=\"oshojokes421\" alt=\"Kowalski and Olga are making love in the upstairs bedroom. Just as Kowalski is about to start up his machinery, they hear a loud banging noise downstairs. \"What's that?\" asks Olga, jumping up in bed. \"Nothing,\" pants Kowalski. \"Come on, let's get on with it!\" \"No! No way!\" demands Olga. \"No lovemaking until you find out what is going on downstairs.\" Poor Kowalski stumbles downstairs with a very large erection, and flips on the the lights. Suddenly, the cat jumps out of the window. The dog dives under the sofa. And the parrot, trapped in its cage, looks around frantically, then tucks one leg under its wing and screams, \"Wait! 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